As a daughter of two surgeons, both Notre Dame alums (’77), I have been around the ups and
downs of practicing medicine for my entire life. I have witnessed the on-call nights, the early
tumor board meetings, and both the devastating and uplifting phone calls to patients. Because of
this, I have a different view of medicine than most; it isn’t always the glorious job that most of
the television shows portray it as. It is especially challenging to balance the demands of work life
and raising three children.
I am positive that the only way my parents were able to become so successful is because of their
compassion – both for their family and their practice.
As a surgical oncologist, my mom has had to overcome many obstacles to get to where she is
today. She graduated with honors in the second class of women at Notre Dame and then went on
to complete medical school in three years at The Ohio State University (don’t worry – we have
no feelings for OSU even after living in Columbus).
I am very fortunate to have had the opportunity to work in my mom’s office the past three
summers. Not only have I gained useful office skills, but I have a newfound understanding and
respect for how important compassion is in this line of medicine especially.
One of the best instances of my mom’s compassion in practice is how long every appointment in
her office takes. She often runs one half hour to an hour late because she literally will spend as
much time as she needs with every patient – even if it means that she skips lunch and will not get
home until 8 pm.
Another instance is that she always treats the whole person and looks at multiple potential causes
of their disease. This includes her advocating for supplements, a balanced diet, and a healthy
lifestyle. She sometimes (jokingly) refers to herself as a “life coach” because when someone has
cancer, everything can come into question and she is always willing to answer.
My mom follows most of her breast cancer patients for life, so many of them would remember
when I was born. I was scheduled to be born through an elective C-Section on October 16 th , but
at a 38 week check-up the obstetrician was concerned about my health. This was a Friday before
my parents were scheduled to go to a Notre Dame football game (vs. Ohio State). He wanted her
to stay and have a C-section but she said she needed to be at Notre Dame. She attended the
game, prayed at the grotto, and that following Wednesday I was born at a whopping 6 pounds 2
ounces but I was healthy. It was common for my mom to take us in on weekends to make rounds
on her surgical patients and deliver teddy bears to all those newly operated patients – and they
tell have fond memories of that to this day and often ask about us on routine office visits.
From listening to her patients tell me about how influential my mom has been in their lives, there
is a common theme in their recollection of encounters with my mom. My mom has a gift of
explaining complex problems in simple terms and even records discussions for patients to listen
to again and share with their family members. Another testament to the success of my mom’s
career is that she still enjoys doing all of the same surgeries as much as she did 30 years ago. To
quote a role model, wife, “life coach”, and most importantly, my mom, “I know the path to being
a physician is long and arduous, however, it is worth it. I am rewarded every day in mind, body
and spirit.”
My mom and me at the Miami Breast Cancer Conference - 2016. |
Katie Santanello is a part of the University of Notre Dame Class of 2018 and from Columbus, Ohio. She is a Science-Business Major and a Catholic Social Tradition Minor. She hopes to follow in her parent's footsteps and become a surgeon.
Katie- thanks for sharing. What a wonderful physician your Mom seems to be, a role model especially for young women on how to balance roles as mother, wife and physician. You are blessed.
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